Monday, January 13, 2025

Always “Better Than Before”

 Sunday, 12 January 2025

Always “Better Than Before”? 

Constantly striving to be a BETTER HUMAN BEING!

That is the only true purpose of LIFE. 

To enhance my experience of LIFE in every small moment within the limited time that one has on this planet in this lifetime. 

The two dimensions of TIME & ENERGY are all that I need to focus upon. 

Recognizing that TIME is incessantly drifting away like the sand in the hour-glass, I have to be conscious of every single moment, because, it is not TIME that is slipping away but LIFE! That makes every moment of one’s day so very precious. 

When one is constantly aware of one’s mortality, it serves to propel you forward. In the scriptures there is a word “DWIJA”. Which really means “twice-born”. Once when you are physically born and come out of your mother’s womb. And the second time is when you really become aware of your mortality! Being aware of one’s mortality is not morbidity, it is the true reality. 

Someone said, “You Live Only Once”…. Actually, it should be “You Die Only Once”. You LIVE EVERY MOMENT!


So, while TIME will slip away every moment and take us that much closer to our end, the only effort that I really need to make is to ensure that my ENERGY is at its most vibrant levels. That way, I can enhance my experience of every moment to the highest levels. Enhance my perception of this magnificent LIFE all around me. Why search for another heaven, and that too after my death, when what we have on this planet is just that? 

And by doing so, I can really make my life, “Better Than Before”. In management terms this is akin to the Continuous Improvement / KAIZEN principle. 

So, whenever someone asks me “How are you?”, I should be able to confidently state “Always Better Than Before”! 

That can be a worthwhile metric / reminder to see if I am true to my goal of “Live Life To The Maximum”. 


Sunday, January 05, 2025

Can we see the forest inside every seed?

Sunday, 05 January 2025

Can we see the forest inside every seed? 

Every piece of creation that we see on the planet (and many species that have not survived) have unique traits and characteristics. 

There are things that worms and insects do, that humans cannot! The eagle soars and the shark dives deep, we humans cannot do so on our own unless we leverage some technology. 

Yet every human has immense potential! 

How did our journey start? Once upon a time, a sperm and an egg met up in a womb! One “successful” sperm that out-swam a gazillion other sperms, managed to reach its destination. That sperm was a winner and that union of a sperm and an egg, is where we started!  So right from the moment of conception we are born winners! 

While the mother provided the safe ecosystem of her womb, there was a natural intelligence that took charge. As the woman went about her daily chores, the intelligence within nurtured the sperm-egg pair and gradually over a period of around nine months, it manufactured a tiny little human baby! Skeleton, tissues, blood and other fluids, organs and glands, limbs and hand, fingers and toes! 

Isn’t that just immensely remarkable!  Such is the magnificence of LIFE! 

And as we journey forth from our moment of Birth to our certain Death, we probably have a period of around 30000 – 35000 days on the planet. 

How well we celebrate and rejoice in this short journey of LIFE is all that we have to focus upon! 

We board a train / plane and at the destination we disembark / deboard. We enter a school or university and after the full syllabus/ course is completed we graduate and exit. Each of these are examples of many smaller journeys that we take up in or wider journey of LIFE. How well we conduct ourselves and how immensely we relish each of these smaller journeys determines how enriched our Life would be. Each of us would “participate” in these journeys to different levels of involvement. And that is what makes each of our LIFE journeys so unique. 

Let us metaphorically compare a HUMAN to a SEED. 

Every SEED has a hidden FOREST within.....and not all seeds go onto the full journey from a simple seed to...sapling...plant...tree....many fruits….each with multitude seeds.....each of which in turn can repeat this cycle and thereby become a forest. That is the hidden POTENTIAL within the seed. 


Likewise every human has immense potential within....not many can claim to tap into their fullest potential before their time runs out. 

Make an effort...Live Life To The Maximum ! .... Maximize your potential for the well-being of the planet and its beings.

Have a wonderful 2025! 


Saturday, December 28, 2024

Celebrate LIFE !

 In 2023 I did not sustain my intent to write daily notes! 

It did not happen in the whole of 2024 either. But now as 2024 nears its end, am prompted to re-start this effort once again. Instead of the ambitious Daily Notes, why not make it a 52-day effort and write notes on every Sunday of 2025! That is the effort that I shall pursue in 2025. 

But before I start this off on the first Sunday of 2025, let me pen a note for 2024 at least! 

So here goes>>>>>>>>

Celebrate LIFE !

The last Sunday of 2024 is here and in two days’ time we will gear up to welcome 2025 ! 
Birthdays, Anniversaries, New Years and various festivals etc are moments of celebration indeed. 

But Dil Maange More! 

Why celebrate just once a year? Can we not have "Har Roz Tyohaar" or "Har Pal Tyohaar". Can we not 
Live Life To The Maximum! 

Birth and Death are the beginning and ending of Life. 

The seasons Spring, Summer, Autumn and Winter also represent the waxing and waning of Life. 

The lunar cycles with the waxing and waning of the moon are also similar representations. 
Likewise, Sunrise and Sunset, Day and Night are the microcosm of Life. Each day that we are fortunate to be alive, is nothing but a representation of Life itself. This LIFE is just a brief journey of around 30000 to 35000 days, maybe some of us would have a few more days beyond that. Celebrate each day ! 
And while you are at it, make the world a better place for yourself and also for every other person and creature on the planet. 

And within each living moment the breath itself is a representation of LIFE. Presence of breath is an indicator of LIFE. The inhalation is akin to birth and the exhalation is akin to death. When a newborn child comes out of the womb, it takes its first inhalation......and when life passes out of our body, it does so, with an exhalation. 

For moving away from COMPULSION to CONSCIOUSNESS, the breath is a powerful tool. The four stages of breath: Pooraka (inhalation), Kumbhaka (fullness of breath), Rechaka (Exhalation) & finally, Shoonyaka (Emptiness of breath), when done with deep awareness, helps strengthen our deepest core. 
Celebrate every breath, every day, every month and every year ! Celebrate every moment indeed ! 

Have a blissful and wonderful year ahead in 2025, filled with amazing moments. 

Live Life To The Maximum ! 

29 December 2024
Day 23024

Saturday, April 02, 2022

Celebrate Every Day !

Celebrate Every Day !


Saturday 02 April 2022: DAY 22022 for me.

Saturday 02 April 2022. The start of the Hindu New Year 2079 as per Vikram Samvat. We humans may use many different calendars to mark the passage of time. And celebrate many different days as their own individual New Year day. The folks in Andhra & Telengana, Maharshtra, Kashmir, and the Sindhis celebrate today as Ugadi, Gudi Padwa, Navreh, Cheti Chand etc. And many others will celebrate it later this month as Bihu, Vishu, Puthandu etc.
It is all about celebration and the marking of the passage of Time.
For Life is so precious and absolutely worthy of celebration today and every single day!! When the sun appears to come up over the eastern horizon on account of the spinning of planet Earth, a new day dawns. There is an ebb and flow in life, as there is in every inhalation & exhalation, as there is in every sunrise and sunset. And every new day is one of hope, opportunities and new experiences & relationships.
Likewise all of us tend to celebrate the day of our birth in any calendar as our Birthday. Many of us have an English birthday and a Star birthday. A once-a-year celebration of the fact that we came into this life on that day and are alive to celebrate it every year.
So why celebrate only on a New Year Day or a Birthday, once a year? Why not every day?
I chose to measure my life in Days and celebrate each day as a new day! Grateful that I have the breath in me for one more day!
So today is DAY 22022 for me on planet Earth in this lifetime.
02-04-2022 is 22022. 02 April 2022: Day 22022 for Shriram Parameswaran
I may surely have added a lot of value to those I have had the opportunity to interact with, in these 22022 days. I surely hope to continue to do my best to add value in the remaining days of my Life.
Live Life To The Maximum
Ps: I use the Days Calculator on www.timeanddate.com to keep track of the number of Days.

Tuesday, May 11, 2021

a few words that I penned today....

 

A rare drop ...then a trickle.....a stream, a river and probably a deluge

Steadily becoming proximal in degrees of connectedness

Instances of humankind dropping their mortal coil

Irrespective of age, gender and general physical health

Bringing with it a numbness and a drought of tears

Each death, merely another statistic, a meaningless count

Social distancing, WFH, virtual meetings etc is already in our vocabulary and now it is digital condolences

Repeated reminders of our definite mortality, the drifting away of our allotted time

Reminding us to strive even harder urgently, at spreading hope, support and whatever we can

To the mass of humanity that we may not today include as our own

While we cocoon ourselves in our private sanitized, secured spaces and fortify with vaccinations

Thinking first of me and mine alone, self-preservation foremost?

Will this insulation be any consolation for those at the frontlines battling out and for those already afflicted, those who have lost livelihood and lives of their dearest

Self-preservation first, letting the frontliners battle it out? Is that the only way or is there another?

Statistics and theories of waves, mutants and vectors, encourage us to shrink further into our shells?

When life is always about expansion and inclusion, is this virus being allowed to reverse our purpose?

Time for all of us, not just the trained and prepped healthcare system, to do our bit to overcome this pandemic

If not for anything but solely because it is upon us and it is our karma. 

Friday, August 14, 2020

Our body: a chemical soup......and an immense possibility of LIFE !



Our body has its own inherent capabilities to generate different chemicals that are required to be in appropriate proportions. There are many chemical factories i.e glands within us, which do these jobs of production. 


Whenever any of these capabilities becomes deficient (underactive or overactive) is when we face illnesses. Eg insulin, thyroxine, adrenalin, testosterone, oestrogen etc And then we address those illnesses by simply taking medicines which are nothing but chemicals to either address the deficiency or to kickstart the internal factories to produce the right chemicals, thereby supplementing the chemical soup that is inside us. These may appear to be quick fixes or short term interventions. However if we live life consciously and manage our lifestyle better, we can keep our internal chemical factories humming innoerfect rhythm and harmony.

There is obviously a strong connect between our body and our mind. All actions and thoughts that we engage in, directly result in the appropriate chemical secretions into the blood stream and result in various after effects. Simple examples are : When we have a sudden scare or fright, our body releases adrenaline in an instant and our heart rate goes up, enabling the after effect of fight or flight. When one sees an erotic image or scene, appropriate hormones get released resulting in male erections and female vaginal lubrication.

So there is a direct correlation between our thoughts & acts and the constitution bof the chemical soup inside us. This being the case, if we can consciously engage in specific acts and thoughts that would enable the release of the relevant chemicals that generate positive effects on us as a human being.

D.O.S.E ...i.e Dopamine, Oxytocin, Serotonin and Endorphins are the wellness / happiness chemicals. We need to have these in the appropriate D.O.S.E within us. And if these are in sufficient quantities, then each of us will have an overall elevated level of wellness within us and would also automatically spread this wellness around us.

The image above in this page and this YouTube link : https://youtu.be/ldPuBk7a9V4
.....and also this post I found on the internet....

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/hacking-into-your-happy-c_b_6007660......which clearly states that "Dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin and endorphins are the quartet responsible for our happiness. Many events can trigger these neurotransmitters, but rather than being in the passenger seat, there are ways we can intentionally cause them to flow."

.......all these guide us to the appropriate actions that we could do consciously to ensure the right dose of D.O.S.E.


Likewise the internal "life-energy" also determines how we conduct our life. The quality / nature of our internal life-energy and where is based within the body determine the conduct of our life. Vice versa how we conduct nour life also determines the nature of our life-energy. The chakras (there are supposed to be 114 chakras for a human ...112 within us and two around us. And of the 112 within us the main ones that are commonly referred to are the seven chakras.....Mooladhara, Swadishthana, Manipooraka, Anahatha, Vishuddhi, Ajna and Sahasrara) and the physical structure of the body (skeleton and organs etc) are depicted in this image and also in these write-ups.

https://kinesiology.co.uk/life-force-energy-and-chakras/

https://www.expressionsofspirit.com/yoga/chakras.htm


One can consciously determine and alter the state of our life-energy by appropriate practices, our lifestyle etc. All yogic masters teach us various kriyas and sadhanas (loosely translated as actions and tools) that help us enhanvebour life-energy.

Having been given the gift of a human life, we can consciously exercise our free will to determine the true impact that this lifetime has on us as individuals and also on the rest of humanity and the planet. We can and should determine what footprints 👣👣👣 each of us leaves on the sands of time.

🙏🙏🙏 Namaskarams 🙏🙏🙏

Shriram Parameswaran
13 Aug 2020

Brevity of life... yet with immense fragrance...



Had penned these few lines earlier this week, at the spur of the moment.....when a cousin in Mumbai shared photos of many BrahmaKamals blooming in her home........ 


And today as a BrahmaKamal blooms in our own small garden, am sharing these words again.

Read on..…...

In the darkest depths of the silent midnight hours
They bloom magnificent these fragile white flowers

Weaving a mystical, magical, virginal tale of promise
Demanding an alert vigil from us, lest the moment we miss

Pristine bridal white and with a fragrance so subtle
They leave a message for all, without any hustle and bustle

Our BEING on this planet, our home, is indeed very brief
Our LIVING can be silent and powerful, spreading joy abundant, never causing grief

Life is akin to that very brief moment of a small part of a dark night
And in that brevity we can play our role well, that is our birth-right

And before the new day dawns, the blooms they shrivel and close.....a withering remnant, quite easily missed, forgotten & ignored ..............................
But with the silent knowledge that fragrance is to be shared, not to selfishly hoard

May our brief lives be equally wondrous
And as we breathe out our last, there is no other judge, but us.



अदवन्तेचेति न्यायः



अदवन्तेचेति न्यायः

𝕿𝖍𝖊 𝖒𝖆𝖝𝖎𝖒 𝖔𝖋 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝖇𝖊𝖌𝖎𝖓𝖓𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝖆𝖓𝖉 𝖙𝖍𝖊 𝖊𝖓𝖉.

 
𝕴𝖋 𝖆𝖓𝖞𝖙𝖍𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝖍𝖆𝖘 𝖆 𝖇𝖊𝖌𝖎𝖓𝖓𝖎𝖓𝖌, 𝖎𝖙 𝖒𝖚𝖘𝖙 𝖍𝖆𝖛𝖊 𝖆𝖓 𝖊𝖓𝖉;


𝖆𝖓𝖉


𝖎𝖋 𝖎𝖙 𝖍𝖆𝖘 𝖆 𝖇𝖊𝖌𝖎𝖓𝖓𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝖆𝖓𝖉 𝖆𝖓 𝖊𝖓𝖉, 𝖎𝖙 𝖍𝖆𝖘 𝖆 𝖒𝖎𝖉𝖉𝖑𝖊 𝖆𝖑𝖘𝖔.

 

Wednesday, July 01, 2020

Palakkad Iyers migration in the years immediately after India's Independence


21st June 2020 was Father’s Day. And a few of us cousins were reminiscing through WhatsApp messages, about our fathers. A band of five Palakkad Iyer brothers (Irinjalakkuda, Thrissur origin) who decided to shift base out of Kerala to Bombay in the early 1950s, in search of a new life.

In their own way our fathers, our heroes, lived life king size in Irinjalakuda, a town in the Thrissur district famous for the Koodalmanikam temple. Our Thaatha was a kind hearted and loving soul who practised law. They lived in a big house near the temple. Their origins were however from Thaikatusherry near Ollur, which is also in Thrissur district. Our great grandfather had lot of land where he did krishi.  

After their basic education in Kerala, armed with shorthand-typing skills, many such Palakkad Iyer men set off towards Bombay to find jobs in the corporate world (and many to Delhi as well to seek employment as Government clerks and officers). That generation of males demonstrated the courage of moving out from Kerala. And their spouses took on the challenge of adapting to an alien state.... new language, lack of joint family support system, culture etc. Hats off to these bravehearts.

The small Palakkad Iyer community in Bombay of that time (1930-1950 I guess?) probably did offer a semblance of a supporting ecosystem for such "migrants". E.g the mess facilities at Matunga etc. They migrated out of Kerala in a steady trickle. The earlier set of migrants settling in and then calling for the next batch to move out. Completing their education under the streetlights of Bombay (not Mumbai), adapting to life in a different State, maintaining cultural roots and network (music, dance, religious rituals, sourcing and making South Indian specialities like vadu maangai, karuvadaams, maahaani, veppilakatti, nenthram chips.....), providing the best that they could afford in terms of education for their kids, supporting each other and the newer set of migrants from their Kerala brethren.....such was their life. Single pointed focus: get a job, steady income, save and secure a good education for their children, support the next batch of migrants.

They must have deprived themselves of many of their own needs, saved money for basics and a few luxuries and provided us with a cocoon of comfort. I remember the movies at Aurora theatre (Tarzan was my favourite), trips to Shanmukhananda hall for music-dance and more so for their samosa, bonda delights,  Phantom and Chandamama, surprises in the form of salted peanuts in pudiyas, potato wafers, Bhel Puri etc bought for us on the way back home from office in the Bombay local trains. And the specials in terms of novels...Sudden, Perry Mason, ViewMaster slides etc.

We are a generation of Palakkad Iyers, born in the decades immediately around India's Independence. Fortified with aracchuvitta sambhaar and mologootal, mezhukkuvaratti and podimas, karuvadaams and parikka vetthal and the special Paal payasams and nei payasams. Education and moral values were our guiding principles.

It is that pioneering spirit of our fathers, supported ably by our mothers, their moving away from Kerala, that provided for all of us a platform and foundation to set up our lives. We were enabled a pursuit of good quality education extending to post graduation and beyond in many parts of India and overseas too.

Our childhood i.e 1960-1980 gave us unique experiences. I remember the foodgrain shortage times when dad and I used to go early morning by train to Ambernath to buy good rice directly from farmers  to supplement ration store supplies. Playing goti (marbles), rubber ball cricket, lagori, borrowing novels from libraries, like Famous Five, Secret Seven, James Hadley Chase etc. Playing indoor games like cards and carrom in the stairwell of the buildings. Going to Madhu Book Store in Matunga for notebooks and textbooks, fixing brown cover and labels to books, exchanging labels with others. Sharing textbooks as a pass-me-down from older cousins to younger ones.

And the blanking out of window panes with paper for the night "lights-out" when the siren blew and the skies lit up with anti-aircraft trace flares.

The summer holiday train rides to Kerala and back was indeed a major highlight....and filled with such joy....today's kids do not even know what a “hold-all” is!!! Packing food for the long train journey in three tiered tiffin dabbas, playing games in the train, climbing up to the middle and top berth in the third class compartment!!! Enjoying the ride through the dark tunnels, enduring the black soot and dust of the coal fired steam engine. Or taking a quick shower at Arakkonam station.

Many of these memories will fade away with our generation. Our kids would not even be able to fathom these experiences.

Our kids face a brave new world confidently today. Now the migration is not from Kerala to Maharashtra, but to lands in different continents. Global citizens they are.

All thanks to our Palakkad Iyer fathers and mothers who dared to make a new life in Bombay.


Wednesday, June 10, 2020

The four yugas

Sadhguru explains the science behind the cycle of four yugas, calculates the timeline since the beginning of the Kali Yuga after the Kurukshetra War.

Did you know that Kali yuga has already ended, and a new era of enhanced perception is about to begin? Sadhguru explains how Krishna foresaw a great period of spiritual growth and enhanced human intelligence 5000 years before its advent.
Kali Yuga– When Did it End and What Lies Ahead?

We are in Dwapara Yuga now. In the year 2082, we will complete Dwapara Yuga and move on to Treta Yuga. (Many of us may not be around then in the present life form).

And what are the implications for Human Consciousness?

Read Sadhguru's explanation:

 https://isha.sadhguru.org/in/en/wisdom/article/kali-yuga-end-lies-ahead

Sunday, April 05, 2020

An Opportunity to Reinvent Your Destiny !

Every moment and every situation offers each of us a New Opportunity. So does Covid19 !  For Business enterprises and Entrepreneurs, here is a great Opportunity to Reinvent Your Destiny.

An opportunity to reinvent ourselves: Yes, the Universe could have used the medium of the Corona Virus to shake us off our stupor. This is a great opportunity indeed. These are great times for turning inward, re-assessing and re-purposing your own life, reinventing one’s own destiny.

New Paradigms, New Realities: Many paradigms would get transformed in an elastic manner and bounce back to the old pattern in a few weeks or few months. Many paradigms would get transformed in a plastic manner and get tweaked to a different permanent-set. Many paradigms would get completely shattered in a brittle manner and just disappear. New paradigms could manifest themselves, thereby offering us newer situations either as opportunities or as challenges. All said, the world as we know it before Covid19 and the world after Covid19 would be two distinct realities. One that we may not be able to fathom clearly today, but one that we can clearly gear up for.

The virus does not recognize boundaries and passports, does not discriminate based on gender, faith, political ideology, economic status or any other criteria. In that sense it is truly a great leveler. It serves a greater purpose of helping erase these human-made discriminators from our minds. The mightiest armies are impotent against this virus, the most reputed management consulting firms and visionaries could not predict this event. Now, as always, these same armies, consultants, visionaries will gear themselves up and help us recover and flourish. This planet Earth that we call home and the Humanity that is the most evolved species on Earth, will both survive this pandemic. We will get ushered into a new reality.

Gearing, Coping & Thriving: There could be a lull till demand really picks up for your business or till your supply-chain and operational processes gear up to a full flow. What should Business enterprises and Entrepreneurs do immediately and for the next few months, till a semblance of a new normalcy gets established? How do we cope in the short term and thrive in the long term?

And these were my ideas:

A. Alternate Imperative Actions: Set into motion many alternate actions that your enterprise really needs. Re-direct your organisational energy and resources to aspects that you may have postponed on account of the earlier routine rush. Re-assessing your inventory model, House-keeping activities, Re-designing process flows etc.

B. Boost Team Morale: Your biggest resource is your team and they will look up to you for a sense of direction, a sense of support and encouragement. They will need your help to make sense of the many uncertainties and grapple with their anxieties. Talk to them virtually, engage with them, communicate on emails and messaging apps frequently and in an articulate manner. Help them appreciate the new opportunities that could emerge. Generate and sustain hope. Be their guiding beacon.

C. Conserve Cash & Resources: As we are in an uncertain time-line, it makes sense to conserve all your vital resources and deploy them in a very discretionary manner. Do not attempt this alone. Engage with your teams and stakeholders to determine how the organisation could tighten its belts but still survive and be ready to thrive. Nurture the essentials, do away with the nice-to-haves.

D. Drive digital discipline: We were already riding a digital wave. It just got more massive. Work-from-home, virtual meetings, e-learning webinars, e-communiques, digital supply chains and digital marketplaces etc demand that each functional aspect be revisited to adopt a digital methodology. In doing so, you have to put in place solid governance mechanisms and checks-balances to drive discipline into the digital workplace. Because, the existing governance mechanisms may not be completely adequate in the digital workplace.

E. Engage with your Stakeholders: Maintain and reinvigorate your connect with all the stakeholders. Investors, Suppliers of Products and Services, Channel partners, Customers / Buyers, End Users. Have a keen perception to assess what has changed in their domains. Your organisation too has to factor these changes into your work-flow. A proactive outreach now will help build and nurture a stronger relationship with all stakeholders. If you RESPOND to them now, you will not need to REACT to them later.

F. Find New Opportunities: It surely is not all doom-and-gloom. A new horizon beckons. It will bring newer opportunities. Learn to read the tea leaves that lie in your market-place tea cup. Seek these out now and make your organisation more agile to these newer opportunities. Seek out new opportunities, gear up the organisation, breast the new tape!

G. Govern and Manage with a newer Consciousness: This is the cliched “last- but-not-the-least”. In fact, in my humble opinion, the Virus has a greater purpose of awakening each of us to a higher frequency. Making us more aware and conscious. Help us realize that we are “of-the-planet” and also “for-the-planet”. See how your business can align with the larger purpose of serving the wellness of humanity and wellness of our home Planet Earth. Yoga is about realizing the concept of Union. The union between the self and the larger whole: The Universe. We all are and shall always be a part of the Universe. Re-look and re-design your governance and management practices with a newer Consciousness. As Peter Block says: Choose Stewardship over Leadership, Choose Service over Self-Interest.

_/\_ Namaste _/\_

Shriram Parameswaran
LifeMaximum

05th April 2020
Coimbatore, Tamil Nadu, India

Thursday, April 02, 2020

"Uttama Purusha".....the Ideal Human

Today is ShriramaNavami.....



The day we celebrate Lord Shriram.....But why is Lord Shriram worshipped?

His life was in no way what one could call a successful life in the normal sense.....it was actually a serial disaster.

His place in the kingdom was usurped, he and his wife were banished into the jungles, his wife was kidnapped, his wife had to undergo an agni- pariksha, he almost killed his own children unknowingly......

Yet he is worshipped.



Because he was the "uttama-purusha".

Despite being bombarded with curve balls all through his life, he always behaved in the right way and did what was right. Did not allow the situations to overcome his composure . And to that quality in a human, we bow down.



Let us all get that quality into us in these times and not just today....let us always have the sense to do the right thing. Be it WhatsApp forwards, be it social+physical distancing, be it handwash with soap, be it following a lockdown strictly, be it supporting the less privileged, putting service unto others above our own self-interests......🙏🙏🙏🙏

#dotherightthing

Leadership, Stewardship, Service....


The traditional model of "Leadership" has these three corner-stones :

(1) #INSIGHT - the ability to see things that others cannot, and to see things as they truly are, unbiased by past tendencies and experiences

(2) #INTEGRITY - the ability to adopt the correct set of values and then have the courage to be true to these values in all that one does

(3) #INSPIRE - the ability to communicate your Insight and your Integrity to a vast set of stakeholders and then help propel them forward on their own steam.

These are times when we realize the greater connected-ness between our-selves, our small circle of family / friends and the larger circle of humanity and all the other creations. These times warrant / recommend a different approach.... and the future will surely require something more than great Leadership.

Beyond Leadership, there is a sweeter choice of #STEWARDSHIP & #SERVICE. It is even more evident that the planet and all businesses on the planet need more of Stewardship. Enjoyed the small excerpt of 54 pgs from the book by Peter Block "Stewardship, Choosing Service Over Self-Interest".

This lays out the fundamental shifts that Stewardship advocates. I hope that you find it relevant.

https://www.bkconnection.com/static/Stewardship_2nd_EXCERPT.pdf

Sunday, March 08, 2020

Cannot have just one day a year as a Woman's day. Every day is her day. Here is to HER !

There was a time, not very far away in the past, when Indian women rarely stepped out of their homes. They were bound down by constraints under the garb of tradition / culture etc.

In the last decade or so, many women have broken these shackles and established their own space in the work-domains outside their homes. And excel at that too, whilst juggling their duties at home.

Many men too have stepped up to this and started contributing their equal might at the home-front, so that the woman can survive and excel in the world outside their homes.

Signs of good times, surely.

However, the scourge of crimes against women, some very subtle, some very explicit, some utterly evil, still make a woman's journey on this planet far more tougher than that for a man.

Let not the absence of a Y chromosome, let not the body features of a woman make their journey unequal. Let us see the human in everyone before we categorize someone by gender.

In count, they may be just around 50% of humanity in the world, but in reality, they create the remaining 50% too!! Salutations to the feminine energy Shakti, Prakriti.

To all MEN and WOMEN....let us all remember that the journey is side-by-side. That is how Nature designed us to be. Each with its uniqueness, but incomplete without the other. Each having yin & yang, purusha & prakriti, ida & pingala.

Let us all get to see the Devi in every woman !! All of us come from the womb of a woman!! It is SHE that creates a HE too!! Here is to HER !

Cannot have just one day a year as a Woman's day. Every day is her day. Don't all men know that!!! 😆

Friday, March 06, 2020

The importance of the choice of LANGUAGE in the Indian context


India, as we all know, has a tremendous diversity of languages and dialects as we traverse our country. According to the Census of India of 2001, India has 122 major languages and 1599 other languages. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Languages_of_India

Whenever we wish to drive change in any aspect of life, be it at home or at the workplace, we have to articulate and communicate the need for change to the target audience. The context and the content would vary from instance to instance: for e.g. it could be safety and process-discipline related on the factory shop-floors, it could be company performance related data sharing to our team at an open-house session, it could be sharing market realities to our dealers and channel partners at a product launch, it could be related to sharing some life-truths to our children at home, it could be related to purchasing vegetables at the local grocery etc.

In a manner of speaking and in my personal view, change of any form happens when the cycle of "COMMUNICATE - CONNECT - COLLABORATE - CREATE" happens effectively. For this to happen the first process of COMMUNICATE has to be very effective.

Among other aspects, the most critical to me is the choice of the language of communication. Unconsciously we do make a shift when we speak to audiences that we really care about (for e.g to some of our senior relatives, we may shift to our mother tongues instead of English and Hindi). We could make this a more conscious and deliberate choice of using the correct language when we speak orally as well as in the written text on our slides , posters , display material etc.

At many plants and factory shop-floors, I notice that some of the safety instructions / process- descriptions are not necessarily in the local language. Recognizing that many States in India have local workforce (specifically plant associates) who are more comfortable in their local language rather than just Hindi and English, we may have to reconsider our choice of language.

Likewise in events involving our local level channel partners, I have seen the "connect" happen far more effectively if the key slides and their content, the medium of spoken communication etc. were in the local language. 

The choice of the language should not be to suit the convenience and comfort of the person/s communicating but more to suit the convenience of the target audience.

In all International destinations, one would see such content in the local languages, right from the airport to the streets and road-signs, to public transport and even in work-spaces.

As senior leaders of organisations, we could bear this in mind when we communicate with Suppliers, Dealers, End-Users, Plant associates etc.

Monday, February 10, 2020

My Kailash Manasarovar Aug 2015 Yatra.... Isha KM2015..... links to my blog posts

Namaskarams, 

SHAMBHO !!!!!

Had the divine grace and opportunity to undertake the Kailash Manasarovar Yatra in Aug 2015 through Isha Foundation's Sacred Walks......... I call it Isha KM2015..... 

Here are the links to my relevant blog posts. Some of these posts contain relevant information for Kailash Manasrovar Yatris, and the others are Day wise posts of our Isha KM2015 trip. Wherever I have compiled information from other sources, I have made sure that I have mentioned the source name in the appropriate blog post itself. If I have forgotten to mention the source name in any blog post, it is not willful and is purely by omission only.  

IMPORTANT These are glimpses and observations of a group of Kailash Manasarovar Yatris, of which I too happened to be a member. While this is being offered to you for your own use, PLEASE respect the privacy of the yatris. If you wish to forward this to any other individual beyond yourself, please do inform me on in advance on my email shriram.parameswaran@gmail.com. Please do not use this in any commercial manner whatsoever. I wish that all those who have got the gift of life as a human being, get the opportunity to visit Kailash Manasarovar at least once in their life time. 






Day 1 Isha KM2015 https://shriramsspace.blogspot.com/2015/08/day-1-15th-aug-2015.html  post dated 15 Aug 2015









  
Day 8 Continued Isha KM2015    https://shriramsspace.blogspot.com/2015/09/day-8-continued-saturday-22-aug-2015.html post dated Sept 04 2015











 Day 16 Continued Isha KM2015    https://shriramsspace.blogspot.com/2015/09/on-arrival-back-home-on-30th-aug-2015.html  post dated Sept 06 2015




If any additional information is needed, please fell free to contact me on +91 8940003443 and I shall try my best to respond. I wish all future Kailash Mansoravar yatris a beautiful life changing experience. 

Pranams,

Shriram Parameswaran

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Friday, August 16, 2019

Independence


Independence: The dictionary meaning of this word would be “the fact or state of being independent”. And the word independent would mean “not influenced or controlled in any way by other people, events or things".

Yesterday 15th Aug 2019, India and Indians all over the world celebrated our 73rd Independence Day. Our tricolour flags were hoisted, patriotic hymns were recited, even tiranga sweets/pulaos were relished, march pasts and salutes done. For some it was a welcome break from routine, for some an extended weekend possibility promising a small holiday. And then life goes on as usual.

In 1947 it heralded our nation freeing itself from the British Empire. A momentous event in our timeline. One which held and continues to hold, a lot of promise for our future as a free nation and as free Indians.

But for the common Indian person in today’s age, one who did not directly witness our freedom struggle first hand, what should every 15th August remind us of and in what way should each of us leverage this reminder? What is true INDEPENDENCE?
  • Independence to do what one thinks is right or the steadfast willingness to abide by the laws of the land?
  • Independence to cross a red light when there is no traffic or the patience to wait for the green light?
  • Independence to throw trash around in public or the discipline to seek and find a trash can and use it?
  • Independence to give and take bribes & transact under the radar or the determination to say NO to corruption and black money?
  • Independence to just witness a crime or accident and be blind to it or the conviction to stop, assist and help?
  • Independence to care for me-mine-myself or the willingness to broaden our inclusion beyond bloodlines?
  • Independence to yield to compulsions or the awareness to lead our lives more consciously?

It may seem that genuine independence may be far more restrictive and demanding....... and far less liberating!  And therein lies the choice of doing the right thing and being truly independent of short term pains and discomfort for the larger good!

To accelerate our nation’s progress on its path towards a glorious future, let us be genuinely independent in every moment of our lives.  Jai Hind !!

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Suicide: an abuse of the gift of Life?

On July 31 2019 the news that hit headlines in India was that of the finding of Cafe Coffee Day's V G Siddhartha's body. 


Circumstances may overpower a person's interiority and compel them to take their own lives.


Be it a young student depressed over grades or a business-person submerged under presumably unsurmountable challenges.. taking one's own life is an extreme step..defeats the gift of life!


Life....the duration between the first breath and the last breath....is just a play ......and we should not blow the close-out whistle ourselves. Keep the ball in play....and have the ability to manage our own interiority irrespective of external circumstances. Live Life to the Maximum.


Only when big names do this to themselves, the media splashes this in our faces. There must be many more lesser known humans who commit this drastic crime on themselves and this goes largely unnoticed by the general population barring immediate family and friends.


Am told that self realized beings know when their time has come...and go into a kind of samadhi and leave their corporeal body...and allow life to ebb out. Likewise have heard that animals and birds too know when their end is nigh...and depart to a place to shed their bodies.


But I don't think animals and birds commit suicide ahead of their time. This frailty is a human speciality I guess. One which we can do without. 


Friday, May 24, 2019

We as Indians have chosen our next PM...What next?


Most of the exit polls on Monday 20th May indicated a comfortable BJP + NDA majority. And the results of the 23rd May are very much in line with the exit polls. Congratulations to all the successful candidates of all parties and my best wishes to all those who contested but could not emerge as a victor.

Kudos to the entire Election Commission team and their machinery for having planned and executed such a mammoth democratic exercise. And to the security forces and paramilitary that guarded the booths and the ever popular EVMs and VVPATs. A massive accomplishment indeed that often goes unrecognised. Yes there have been a few acts of misconduct by various parties during the campaign, even some lives lost, property damaged, some codes of conduct breached, all of which need serious countermeasures. 

My salutes to every eligible voter within the country and outside, for exercising their franchise and helping determine the future course for the country. For those who could not or did not vote for any reason, I urge them to please do so in future opportunities. It is not just one’s right, privilege or authority....it is one’s clear responsibility as a citizen of India.

In many instances, parties and personalities, big and small, those in power and those out of power, all of them stooped very low and used unnecessary negative rhetoric that has inflicted wounds on other parties, personalities and even brought some disrespect to the Defence Forces, the EC and the Judiciary. Even the Mahatma was not spared!! As India fights to regain its rightful eminent position in the global order, such toxic mudslinging does a huge damage to the image and stature of India as a nation. After the elections, politicians may shrug these off as minor misdemeanours in the "heat of the campaign", but they should introspect on the scars that these will surely leave on the impressionable minds of the younger generation of Indian citizen voters and politicians and also on global opinion leaders. Our friendly neighbourhood countries too would manipulate these to India's disadvantage. Is it too much to ask and expect that future Indian elections be conducted in a more civil and dignified manner? 

There is a lot of talk about the "maturing of the Indian voter". That is a very good trend indeed. Can we as citizens also expect a "maturing of the politicians". The only time that most politicians fold their hands, bend their backs a little and appear to supplicate is in the few weeks before an election. They talk of the janata being the "maalik". But once the ballot is cast and counting is done, the hapless voter is forgotten and most of the promises made disappear into thin air. The elected candidates feel that their position and power is an entitlement and not a responsibility!!!  Can we Indians even dare to expect our politicians and national leadership to act more responsibly? How do we make them more accountable? How will our politicians realise that the "dharma" of a politician is to serve. How do we ensure that the power and trappings of an elected candidate does not go to their heads and corrupt them? 

How can we ensure that there is a clear demarcation between the Defence Forces and the Government? Unlike our neighbouring country where probably the Defence still has a major hand in the way their Government is run. How can we ensure that the Defence is not politicized and manipulated for election wins by any party? 

Today most Indians live and work in cities that are not their home town, not where their names are listed on the electoral rolls. And they cannot always travel back to vote. We live in the times of internet banking, e-commerce and demat trades. Huge sums of money are transacted digitally without physical paperwork, signatures or face to face meets & handshakes. Can we look forward to a time when every eligible Indian voter can exercise one's franchise from wherever one is, based on verification of biometrics and ones Aadhaar identity?

The results of the 17th Lok Sabha elections in 2019 hold a lot of promise and hope for the Indian economy, for an all-inclusive progress, for further strengthening India's standing on the global stage. Prime Minister Modi and his chief architect Amit Shah have strategized and executed their game plan, leading to a handsome majority and their party's number growth, even in hitherto uncharted territories. What do I as a citizen want from my PM, in his repeat five year term? 

Am sure that our PM and his cabinet are very focussed on all our national priorities and will deliver on their various promises. Apart from that I look forward to a few more aspects:

What I am looking forward to is that while the BJP leverages its absolute majority in a sensible manner, they have to have the humility to still carry their NDA allies along respectfully.

How will the PM allow the elected Governments in all the States and the UTs, whether it is a BJP government or not, to function well? And not destabilize them for the spread of the saffron colour? 

Today there is only one truly national party and that is the BJP.  It appears that the Congress has clearly lost it's compass. All others are smaller regional parties. How will the PM and the BJP maintain a healthy respect for national parties and regional parties? 

Talking of the Congress, which is the only other possible national party, how will they address their clearly lacking leadership issue? And their poor organisation structure?  Will they survive another 5 years or get lost in oblivion? 

We also know that there is no credible opposition inside the parliament. The situation that the Congress finds itself in is pathetic. For the institution of Democracy to function well, it is important that there be a very powerful but constructive Opposition to maintain a check and balance. How can the BJP generate a solid opposition for itself to function effectively? 

How can the PM ensure that each Central agency functions independently and efficiently, in clear alignment with national priorities and always keeping the Indian Constitution paramount? 

How can the actual data and reality of the country’s growth be measured and communicated clearly to one and all so there is no debate on the vital statistics of the nation?

Picking from the PM's own words of last evening, how can the Government focus and help the only two "castes" of relevance.....one is the impoverished and the other is those that can do / want to do something positive for the up-lift of the impoverished? 

For India and its 130 crore humanity, these next five years are very crucial. Almost of all us fall in that exclusive minority which is clearly and comfortably out of the poverty level. But many of our fellow Indians are way below the poverty levels. The real dance or “thaandav” of democracy is to be seen from their weary eyes. The Indian Government is tasked with bringing a huge mass of humanity out of poverty with no more time to waste.

I look forward with a lot of hope for another five years under our PM Modi. Whether I or anyone else voted for him, for BJP or for some other party is irrelevant. Today he is my country’s elected PM and I wish him well.

Jai Hind!